Bullying is something that goes on in every school. It does not just happen in schools, it happens all around the world inside and outside of schools. It is really unfortunate to have bullies, but it is real and it happens everyday.
Bullying has more an effect on the victim than it does on the person doing the bullying. You really do not see the bully crying or upset after he gives someone a swirly. I think that an affect on a bully is that he feels better about himself after he destroys a kids life. For some reason, the bully has to beat someone up to make himself feel good. I do not know why he has to do this, because I do not consider myself a bully, but for some reason by beating a kid up the bully feels like he is on top of the world. It makes him feel like he is dominate.
Now on the opposite side of things, the victim is the one who is emotionally and physically destroyed by a bully. You mostly think of bullying as someone getting a swirly, but bullying can be anything. It can be as small as saying you are stupid, or something like that. The victim is truly the one who is affected by the situation. He not only gets the pain of whatever the bully does to him, but he also gets the embarrassment of people finding out. It is really sad to think about how that person must feel. I really have never had nothing traumatic ever happen, so I can not even imagine the pain he must go through. He will never feel the same about himself for a long time, and possibly ever. It is a scar that he will live with for the rest of his life. Bullying does affect two people, both in different ways, but when people think about bullying they usually think of the victim getting victimized.
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